Friday, April 25, 2008

Long Distance Love


Hey folks. Welcome to the 2nd Edition of the Classifieds.......


I'm speaking on the subject of long distance love tonight.


I think I'm the Queen of Long Distance romances. I can only think of a couple guys I've actually called my "man" who have lived in the same city as me. By no means do I intentionally look for guys in other states, but it seems like the "good ones" are no where near me.


It just occurred to me that I may not know what it's like to have a guy cater to me and live like right down the street. The thought of being able to see my significant other (SO) without having to log on to orbitz.com first, would be amazing.


Wow. Let's marinate on that for a minute....


I mean, the thought of being in love is attractive to me. I love romance. Cards. Flowers. A sticky note saying: I love you. Corny stuff. Attention is key. I just want to know that what you do for me, can't be done for the next chick. I mean, c'mon...it's easy to send a mass text to every chick you know in your phone saying "Hey Cutie, Have a great day!" But what have you done for that special someone to let them know they mean the world to you?


When you're in a LD relationship it's even more important to call, text, email, send a picture, or visit that person as much as you can. You have to keep the flame burning. Shoot...even a local relationship can get boring if it's predictable. I feel like the older I get, the more routine things get. A change of pace is always a breath of fresh air......


Note to self: The Man I marry will be spontaneous and romantic (and hopefully in the same zipcode, timezone or state) lol ;)

2 comments:

The Bad Guy said...

We are two peas sitting in the same pod....

LeMont said...

You just popped off a lot of people with the mass text to several people saying the same "Hey cutie..." bit. Giving out too many secrets! HAHA Just playin...